Life Group Questions

Married Vow: I promise to pursue my number #2

Single Vow: I promise to pursue my #1

Main Idea: Close the Gap between your intentions and your actions…

A) When you SEE SOMETHING GOOD say SOMETHING GOOD.

Men: Pursue your Woman with words of affection.

Women: Pursue you man with words of affirmation.

  • Women wonder do you love me today?
  • Men wonder do you believe in me today?


B) When you THINK OF SOMETHING do

Talk about it:

Ice Breaker: What’s something crazy you’ve done for love? How did you do on building a priority list from last week?

Read Genesis 2:18-25 then read v. 24 again

In your opinion why does verse 24 begin with the man leaving? What does it mean to be united to your spouse? If your married do you feel that unity to your spouse? If your single do you feel united with Jesus? Why or why not? What brings disunity in a relationship?  This week we learned that work united in verse 24 is Dabaq (daw-bak) in Hebrew, and means to catch by pursuit. What are something’s that stand in the way of you pursuing your spouse if married, Jesus if single?

What makes you feel pursued? Do you feel a gap between your intentions and actions? What are some ways you can close that gap?

Read James 4:17, Hebrews 3:13 and 1 John 3:16-18

What are some “good things” you ought to do? Is anything holding you back?

Close in prayer

Challenge for the week

Start each day this week trying to memorize James 4:17

If your married ask your spouse today what makes them feel loved, and do it!

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